Ok so it has been a couple years now and we made the choice to stick it out and "get through it" together without divorcing. I just wanted a few more opinions on one part of it. So I KNOW she had an affair, she denied it from the start and still to this day but the simple fact is, it wasn't disguised well when it was going on and a blind-idiot (aka me at the time) could see what was going on. Anyway, what really gets to me now is how she WILL NOT own up to it. She denies it to this day saying they were just "really good friends." Simply put, I know there was more going on and it just bothers the sh*t out of me that she can't just admit it.
So my question to everyone is: Am I the only one who thinks things will never really "heal" unless she can admit her fault? I mean how can someone be sorry for something they adamantly claim never happened?
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Cheating/affair is obvious but she won't admit it...
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