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Weird one

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Kittenswithattitudeandchickens Sun 09-Jul-17 22:18:32

I have been in shit relationships all my life. I am finally in a good relationship but our financial differences are huge. I earn less than 12k a year and am a single parent. I don't know what he earns but believe it to be just under the 40# tax threshold. Been out with him and his friends and they think nothing of spending £300 on a night out. No problem with that. But he don't get I can't do that. He says he does but he doesn't. He arranged for us to go horse racing on ladies day. I spent as least as I could borrowing a dress and spending £25 I couldn't afford on shoes and bag. Rounds were £40. He does understand I can't do that it makes me feel grim that all his friends can and I can't. Not to drip feed but I can't afford his lifestyle. How do I deal with it? Put up or get out?

Missb00 Sun 09-Jul-17 22:22:47

He will get the idea once you start declining going to events with him. Tell him you can't afford it and don't go. He'll cotton on.

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