Sorry in advance for the long post. I need some helpful advice please. My dh of 8 years has been speaking to other people online on various websites. I first found this out last October and he said it was because he had lost his job in the January and felt low and depressed and was too ashamed to speak to me. I accepted this although was hurt because he didn't speak to me. He swore it was just talking. I have had trust issues since and have been snooping. I found on his Google account he was downloading two apps for chatting, 3 times a day nearly every other day. One is the one you send pics on. He didn't have me as a friend on there. He denies anything sexual and says it was just chat as he has no friends and is lonely. I found out he was doing this even before he lost his job. I don't know if I can trust him again and I work nightshifts..will I be wondering what he's doing all the time. We have a 5 year old and have just moved house with a mortgage. I love him but don't know how to go on. I believe it's nothing sexual I just don't know if I can cope with betrayal. I have suggested a lie detector and counselling. He wouldn't do the detector as he doesn't think they are accurate. But would do counselling. Would you believe him? Tia
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