Hi there I'm new here ladies. I made this account to try and speak with other woman who might be able to help me out :). I have been with my DH for 5 years. We have one child together who is 3. I am a stay at home mom, & also take pride in going to the gym 6 days per week & cook, clean ect. My DH works just 5 hours per day self employed. He is a very egocentric, has to have designer clothes, but then moans about money. We have no joint account and I don't want one with him. DH has previously been to prison and vowed to change when I waited for him and kept his legitimate business a float for 5 months whilst travelling to visit him 2-4 times per week. He has not changed. but the real issue is the way he treats me, his aggression and strops. I try quite hard sexually with him because I like him to feel he has a hot wife who takes care of herself. Send him pictures occasionally & get dressed up for him. But sex 1/2/3 times a week 'isn't enough for him' I find myself throughout these times having sex when I don't want to and hoping it will be quick, I think down to his jealous/argumentative ways this puts me of having sex with him. But when he argues about not feeling man enough because I don't give him enough oral sex each week i feel violated by the comments like he is a sexual preditar and it sickens me to hear it. He says it's called 'talking like a man'. I feel so stuck, I have self love for myself and he does not for his self as he doesn't care for himself properly in any walk of life other Than masking that up with designer clothes to make himself feel better. I've ended things and coped before just fine. But I feel very vulnerable right now and at a low place. Would a talk about his behaviour fix this? Somehow I really think not :(
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Feel sexually violated by my husband, aggression, temper & tantrums.
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dani1394 · 06/07/2017 13:37
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