I've recently separated from my wife of 4 years, together for 12 years and we have a daughter aged 8.
I made the break, we were in a marriage with zero passion, spark and I was essentially used as childcare for her social life and hobbies, whilst all my aspirations were unsupported or curtailed. There was no way I was treated as an equal or valued and although I raised the subject over the past couple of years it was always dismissed or ended up with me backing down.
I know I have made the correct decision but am feeling pretty emotional this week. They are both on holiday (the planned family holiday in Florida, which is fine) and I miss the wee one terrible. Been staying in the family home again as they have been away and just looking for a wee bit of advice/words.
Am I feeling emotional as this is realisation that my life is going to change completely.........are there any answers for this period of time?
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GlasgowParent · 29/06/2017 10:39
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