This is a wwyd - I think I know the answer but I don't know if I'm being a bit harsh.
I have a new partner - 8 months on and going well. Before we met, I'd planned a holiday abroad with the DCs - we haven't had one for 10 years now, so it's a big deal to me.
It would be nice if DP came with us and indeed he's been talking about coming with us.
He can't afford his share (I haven't asked him, I just know the state of his finances!) and I can't afford to sub him unless I go into my 'emergency savings' pot.
Should I lend him the money (knowing it will be about 6 months before he can pay it all back) or go by myself with the DCs ??
Thank you
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Lending partner money
Rawhide · 28/06/2017 16:11
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