Background: have very low libido, esp. after having DD. We have sex about once a month, not even as much as that sometimes. I just never feel in the mood, or I get bored halfway through. We're going to see a couples therapist to see if there's a way for me to get some oomph back - I'm just knackered most of the time.
So recently, he remarked that he was "worried" he would have an affair, because he isn't getting much sex at home. And then a couple of weeks later, we were talking about someone I know who's having an affair, and DH said that he wouldn't be able to keep sleeping with me if he was having an affair.
I just think it's a bit weird to suddenly mention affairs and what he would do in that circumstance. And part of me feels he was just being honest, and part of me feels like he's almost threatening me.
I don't know how I feel about it, just feel a bit sad. And it's not like I WANT to have low libido, I just do these days. Are we putting too much faith in therapy? Have other people been in a similar situation and found a way through? Until recently, I would have been one of those people who'd swear blind their partner would never cheat on them, and now suddenly I'm not sure.
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DH "worried" he might have an affair
isthisanissueornot · 27/06/2017 14:28
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