NC for this , been seeing my DP for 4 years we don't live together but see each other very regular at both houses , I have a 10 yr old son who I have joint custody of and my DP has a 22yr old son . The son has always been a problem to the DP mainly with being lazy , loosing jobs , trashing the house when we go away , stolen DPs money etc... DP has tried to kick him out and he goes but always turns on the emotional blackmail and moves back.
Now the problem has escalated he hasn't worked for 18 months and has stopped claiming any benefits but has always got plenty money as suspected he has now confessed to dealing and is more than happy with his career choice , I am a hard working person and this behaviour goes against everything I believe in , I love my DP with all my heart and we have a good relationship with the usual ups and downs life brings . My DPs opinion is he is a waster and if she doesn't think about him it won't affect them (burying head in the sand) ...
What would you MNers do I am confused and don't want myself being dragged into it but don't want to not be with my DP ...
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averageguy1 · 25/06/2017 23:58
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