My Dh works hard and earns alot of money, he's always had an issue about money and we have our own accounts whixh is fone as i dont want to feel like hes watching what I spend. The issue is I've just begin my 4th month of mat leave where I now get stat pay and he's not helping me pay my side of the bills! I can pay everything with mat pay apart from the food shop and any extras. I feel guilty when I ask for £10 to go for a coffee at a soft play. He gives me the money by then jokes about the fact I have none and always reminds me he's paid for things. it's quite hard as I've always been finaniaclly dependant but him being like this is making me question the type of person I've been with for the past 5 years. what would you do?
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feeling unequal & inadequate jusf beacause im on mat leave
user1498420617 · 25/06/2017 21:45
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