Basically have had enough with my parents and the golden childing of my elder sibling, its really petty shitty things like supporting her with childcare as she has a 'more important' job and forgetting our daughter's first birthday as 'd'S and her husband had a work social function to go to and wanted a babysitter. I wasnt even thinking or expecting card/gift just a call/message to say happy birthday. Already knew they wouldnt be there on actual bday as DM had said they were going to stay with DS for the week to give her a break as her aupair was away. I know its my parents choice what to do with their time and that my teaching role isnt as impressive for them to talk about as opposed to lawyer d sis, but if I ever even try to talk about the disparity or how derogatoty she is I'm 'whinging'. Of course with all my free time in school hols I should be so excited to help out my busy big sis with her children and if I dont then im of course being 'difficult'. Really cannot be arsed with all of this anymore and just want to leave them in their self-congratulary world.
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