DP is financially abusive, extremely lazy, cannot do anything with the DC, has a history of dishonesty and porn addiction, is a danger to the DC and just generally really irritates the hell out of me. I have been a fool doing absolutely everything and getting into debt and I have had enough. We have nothing to talk about. He follows me around the house. I've never left the house without DC in almost 5 years. He has a DC from a previous relationship that I think he's lied about why he doesn't see them. He's lied about hs earnings. He's secretive with his phone. I could go on but I think you get the idea.
The thing is, he genuinely thinks all is rosy and I'm that I'm really happy to be with him (!) It's beyond the point where talking could solve anything, I actively dislike him. I want to sort out a property and tell him the DC and I are leaving. Is this really unfair of me? I have no support whatsoever and am pregnant so it's not a decision I've taken lightly but I feel ill be trapped here for longer if I wait until after the baby is born.
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Busybecca · 24/06/2017 00:11
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