Hi all,
Me need some advice from you all. I am 34 years old 35 in October. I've been with my partner for 4 years but I'm not 100% convinced she is the one for me! I love her but I'm not in love with her.
I've been struggling with the idea on what to do for the past year and I'm stuck on this certain point...
Ive always thought that the perfect time to have children was between 28 and 35 and I'm fast approaching 35. I know if I leave her I'll be much older than I wanted to be in relation to having children.
A lot of people tell me that age is just a number. But is it really? I know people who have had children at 35+ and I know I can have children.
I suppose I look at it in the respects that I want to do things when my children are grown up. Like my mum and dad. There is stuff I wanted to do but haven't done it yet. Like places I wanted to visit and places I wanted to go. The old bucket list.
Is there anyone out there that can give me some advice? Anyone out there who is younger and met an older man who was in his late 30's or a lady out there with similar things.
Please don't judge me in a negative light. I'm one of the good guys. I've just got a little lost...
Thanks in advance.
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Willing2acceptAdvice · 23/06/2017 11:16
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