So this morning before he left for work I walked in from boot camp to be told the following things are my fault
Cannot find his mobile
Cannot find his tax paperwork (on the table, found in seconds)
Can't find the details of the person he crashed into (tiny bump all cosmetic but done damage to our car) and is furious with me because I want to make it easy on.everyone and go through insurance and he insists we can do it cheaper by repairing both cars ourselves. Wants me to spend the day ringing people to find someone who cleans and repairs scratches on alloy wheels. The other person would clearly prefer to go through insurance, he is angry at me because I think we should.
He is 5 weeks away from the end of term, at which point he is leaving his job with nothing to go to. He works as a teacher in a centre for troubled kids and it is.really stressful. I understand and try to support him where I can. But it is all about him. He is so stressed and depressed that he can't see how unfair he is being to me. One of my kids is being really badly bullied at school and he can't cope with it on top of work.
We are both really stressed and unhappy and I can't see a way forward. A friend of mine who went through a messy divorce and ended up with nothing says there are no happy endings and to stick it out. He wishes he'd done that. I don't know what to do. I can't put the family through a divorce whilst my dd is going through hell at school so I have to stay put atm. He is not a bad man, but can't see what he's doing. I feel so lost and alone
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Narnia72 · 23/06/2017 08:19
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