I'm trapped for the next 16 months in this relationship.
He is abusive, he is controlling, he makes sure I only have access to about 5 percent of his income (by the time ive bought food and paid for dds classes I have nearly nothing left) each week. I have access to bank statements but no cards, other than a cash card he's given me which he puts money on each week its the sort of thing aimed at parents with kids for pocket money etc he makes me feel like a child. He has hit me many times over the years but its "only" every few months (I know, I understand, it should be 0 and its awful that it isn't)
There are legal issues surrounding why I cannot (yet) leave. But I'm planning my escape. Has anyone ever been in this situation? How do you survive emotionally? How do you carry on? I wish I could just walk out and never turn back but I can't :(
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Newname999000 · 22/06/2017 07:46
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