My parents and my in laws live in the same town which is two hours away from where we live.
Because of this, my in laws have never bothered making either of their two spares rooms habitable for us. They expect us to stay at my parents' which was fine.
However now my parents really struggle with health and with our children who have Sen and are challenging. This also means staying in a hotel would be extremely difficult as we cannot all sleep in one room.
PLus my in laws are also in ill health and now additionally have my disabled bil living with them as he can no longer live alone.
Also only fil can drive and currently he can't due to his health.
So. My pils have been phoning my DH saying how sad they are not to have seen the children and they're missing out.
I agree. They are. But I can't see what we can do?
If they had spare rooms we could stay there. But they expect us to use my parents' like a hotel and this has always annoyed me although we have done it, but is now not ok because my parents are not up to it.
My husband thinks I don't like his parents but actually I just can't see how we can visit as it's not possible with no room to sleep and too far to do in a day with Sen children.
I've no idea how to handle the emotional blackmail pils are giving my DH over this.
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Sisinisawa · 21/06/2017 16:05
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