Met up with my first ever online date yesterday from OkCupid. It was great - he was so chatty (which eased my nerves!), decent guy, not cocky, hard working, loving dad etc., etc.,
Anyway, I really don't know if I am being way too shallow here (in fact, I probably am!) but........would it bother you that he doesn't drive, yet has a brand new iPhone 7 and spends a fortune as a regular cinema-goer?! Should a man of 38 be aspiring to spend his money on driving lessons by now as opposed to technology and the cinema?
He is a genuinely lovely guy, plus we had a lovely kiss (or 5, ha!) and he's also a nice kisser (veeeerrrrryyyy important!)
Am I just being shallow and picky?
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First ever online date - not sure?!
ScouseBird8364 · 13/06/2017 07:25
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