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user1497297575 · 12/06/2017 21:04

I'm writing on here because I don't know what to do and I'm feeling I have nowhere to turn to.
My husband and I keep having small little arguments. I often feel alone, not listened to and really quite sad. I feel that my ideas and plans and hopes fall on deaf ears sometimes. Sometimes I will cry and need a little bit of reassurance but I don't get that until I ask and ask. I often feel criticized, if I suggest improvements to our home, as my ideas aren't important enough.
Is all of this normal? I never used to feel this way, but over the last 6 months or so, it seems to be getting worse and worse. What is the best thing to do? Should I get some counselling? I feel too embarrassed to confide in my friends.