What if anything do I do? Low key messaging, three texts. Not threatening or aggressive. Police explained clearly to him not to contact me. House is secure with changed locks, do I do anything about the messages? (obviously replying is not an option). Contact police seems overkill, but reason police were called were mental health concerns which then raised past instances of his violent behaviour. Without me pressing charges or him accepting mental heath support the situation seems to be in limbo. I want to move on with my life, after several years of hell. He admits to the violence but because it was a long time ago ( we ended the relationship over a year ago) doesn't seem to think it should be a problem. He has not apologised. He thinks I have been unkind to him by breaking up with him. He refused to return my keys and remained a controlling force in my life until police became involved (I did not call the police, a concerned friend of his did) I can not let him back in my life but what, if anything do I do about the contact attemps?
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exP told by police on Tuesday last week not to contact me, is trying to contact me.
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Roundles · 11/06/2017 21:23
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