So I need the usual sensible talking to from strangers
In a nutshell..
met DH at uni ten years ago...also had a good male friend in our large group of friends. We always had chemistry but both ignored it (i had a boyfriend, now DH, and he because he's a nice guy) no sneaky shenanigans, nothing.. it went on for ages.
Anyway before I married DH I slept with this friend. Just one time, one night, never repeated. Yes I am aware I am a shit. Now married and two kids. I talk to the old friend now and again (we don't live close enough to meet up) but he has a Gf now.
ANYWAY sometimes I panic I've made a huge mistake not admitting ages ago that I like him..I often think of us in a 'couples' situation I'm not sure how much I love DH anymore, have we become more friends, is this normal tho after kids? We see little of each other with busy jobs which doesn't help.
God I don't think I'm even clear what I'm asking someone to tell me to get over this old thing? Surely it can't be anything as only spent that one night together? It's just the awful feeling of what ifs... has anyone ever taken a crazy leap of faith?! I'm wondering if this is a grass seeming greener but it's really not case..
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MartyDoc · 08/06/2017 20:45
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