Hello all. I am with DP for two years and we are planning to get married next year. Recently i started thinking that he can not hold a job for more than few months and it must be his fault. I know it sounds terrible but he has been through so many since i met him and he will always leave or get fired and always blaming it on them. I was very supportive up to few months ago because i believed every reason he gave me. The one job wasnt giving him opportunities, the job was very hard , the manager didnt like him and was jealous of him, supervisor felt threatened by him being so good at his job etc. It sounds ridiculous now but i believed every excuse and always supported him. When he got his latest job he would come home telling me all those stories how good he is and how everyone will go to him for help and i thought that this is finally where he will settle. But now three months in the job he started telling me how the supervisor tries to get him fired because he is feeling threatened by him .Apparently my DP is so good at this job that everyone goes to him for help ignoring the supervisor. I feel terrible saying this but is all seemed too silly to be true. When i tried to tell him that to me it doesnt seem that the supervisor does anything else than his job (he told me some stories) he got angry with me telling me that i can not support him and that i will always support those who are bad to him. What is the best way to approach the situation? I honestly think that there is something wrong on my DP side because it can not be always someone elses fault
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I am afraid that future husband cant hold a job
soconfused40 · 06/06/2017 18:33
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