I need to separate from my dp of two years. The last few months have been very strained and we have discussed splitting a few times.
Part of me thinks if I threw myself at it things could get better but I'm struggling to move past his behaviour. He has told me; I'm shit at my job, a poor mother, the abuse from exh is made up (involved a non mol). Disagreements cannot be resolved without a full character assassination of me. I pretty much stand there and take it. Actually he behaves a bit like exh in a few ways. He's very immature with anything high emotion.
I'm very worried how my dc will cope with this split though I have told them today that dp may be moving out. Dd2 was quite sad but snapped out of it soon enough.
I'm gutted. I tried.
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Queenofthedrivensnow · 31/05/2017 13:13
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