Interested in your ideas as to how long it's possible to keep a relationship going for without living together. I've 40, a single parent and have got four children ranging from four to thirteen, he's 50 and a single dad to four children aged 10 to 16. My children have had huge amounts of disruption over the last three years and it's vital to me that the eldest have stability in our home while they finish school. He is unwilling to leave his home until his children are adults as he has lived there for 30 years.
He is a lovely man and could make life fun and very happy on a day to day basis but I'm concerned about allowing myself to care for someone where there can be no real plans to live together for the next eight years or more, by which time I'd be nearly 50. I don't want to spend all of my 40s living alone. Has anyone managed to keep a relationship going with two separate households for this length of time?
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namechangegal · 31/05/2017 10:14
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