I've been split from exP for about a year. Lots of getting back together, then splitting up. Last time we got back together we both agreed it was the last time. We split, I've kept to my word and not initiated any getting back together type conversations, cut contact as much as possible, for the most part, not even wanted to.
I just seem to go through these highs and lows. Last week I was all excited at some bloke on tinder (nothing happened, not even a message) and this week I've abandoned my jog and am sitting on the grass sobbing (I am due on in fairness) over him. Just wrote a really long (not actually going to send) message to him in my notes. It's actually pathetic.
I really miss him, but when I'm with him, I remember all the reasons we aren't together anymore. I seem to have a real issue with letting go (I have Elsa in my head now).
How do I 'let it go'?
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How do I stop wanting him?
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malibuthru · 30/05/2017 18:19
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