Hello all. I received some messages from DP and i am not sure if this is supposed to be nice or what. He can be emotionally abusive and he will rage over small things , so a nice night can turn to a nightmare if you say the wrong thing. Lately every time i disagree or i dont like something he will get angry and in addition to everything else he will assassinate my character and find something wrong with the relationship. I am this and that and the other and he is tired of the relationship, i am not normal , he is close to leave etc etc. I feel that i never know what will trigger him as it can be something as simple as i didnt want to play videogames with him or i said something nice about someone he doesnt like etc. Yesterday he made some decisions that i dont agree with but because i did not want to trigger his rage i just suggested that if possible to stop talking about it, the decisions are made so no point talking. Later i received some messages along the lines that "he loves me and he chose me for a reason and even if i made him angry and mad he still loves me". I am so tired of him and these sort of comments (i perceived it as negative) and i asked him if he is happy in the relationship as he was at the beginning. He replied that he is but "if i want to see it i will have to treat him better". I swear all i do is love him and be nice but its never enough. I am so confused i dont know if those messages are supposed to mean something nice or what
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