It was my decision to split after having suffered EA and other things I don't really wanna go into (will probably out me)
He's taken it pretty badly but the last few days has come to terms with it.
We split about 2 weeks ago. He still lives in the house with us, sleeping on the sofa, until his parents can have him at theirs (long story) but that should be in the next couple of days.
Anyway we've been discussing child arrangements but he's saying he wants DC 3 nights a week. My ex MIL is a nasty spiteful old cow who any chance she gets will criticise me or my parenting etc. I haven't spoken to her in about a year, and DC will only see her maybe once a month when my XP goes to see her.
I have told him I don't want DC around her alone as I know she'll slag me off and I want to keep my DC out of this as much as possible. He's saying she'll behave etc. I just don't believe it.
I can't not let XP see DC, but he'll be living with her.
He also works 6 days a week so he won't even be having DC during the day, he said he'd put DC in a nursery while he's at work but I can see the old bat kicking up a fuss that she'll look after him for free etc.
I really don't know what to do.
Even if we arrange the days he has DC are around his day off, he'll still not be there for 2 days.
WTF am I gonna do?
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We've split - he wants DC 3 nights a week?
BankHolidayBlues · 29/05/2017 11:46
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