Ex cheated, left last year and it's been awful for me. He got engaged to OW within weeks, stopped paying child support for a few months, offers no parenting support beyond his fortnightly access. Meanwhile me and the OW had a spat via text and completely detest one another.
Because he's a cheater to the core, he tries it on with me when he drops off DC.
This is the lunatic bit...
I've been recording him trying it on. I have filmed him kissing me and suggesting we go to bed. I've let him kiss me purely so I can record him.
My fantasy is that I send the footage to her as a wedding present. She has been cheated on by her last husband. In some ways I'd be doing her a favour. But of course I'm motivated by revenge.
Is this idiotic? I sort of like having the knowledge and proof - I'm not even sure I would send it but I keep collecting it. I'm also aware that this isn't the behaviour of someone who is moving on :-/
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KeyChange · 28/05/2017 22:34
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