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How much sex after been together at least 15 years?

(28 Posts)
somerandomfucker Sat 27-May-17 21:12:14

Just being nosey really, so I can compare to my dire sl confusedgrin

Wingles10 Sat 27-May-17 21:13:18

Once a year maybe? We're in our early 30s too sad I just have no sex drive at all

dementedpixie Sat 27-May-17 21:14:24

Tends to be once every week, sometimes two weeks

somerandomfucker Sat 27-May-17 21:20:25

Wingles lol!! I don't feel so bad now twice a year max grin

Snap8TheCat Sat 27-May-17 21:21:59

Usually aim for once a week, sometimes more sometimes less.

Str4ngedaysindeed Sat 27-May-17 21:22:53

We've been together 19 years and still manage maybe twice a week! It's more 'comfy' than wild and chandelier hanging esque though 😁

Donttakemeout Sat 27-May-17 21:23:16

It's feast or famine here. It all depends on work and shifts.

Wingles10 Sat 27-May-17 21:23:48

Looks like we're the minority grin

hugoagogo Sat 27-May-17 21:26:55

Somewhere between once a week and twice a year here after 22 years. The point is we would like to more often but life gets in the way

BTG3385 Sat 27-May-17 22:30:44

Wingles- I don't think you are!

swampytiggaa Sat 27-May-17 22:33:25

At least once a week - would be more often but H works permanent nights so is at work 5 nights a week.

Together 20 years married 16 with 5 children 🙂

MysweetAudrina Sat 27-May-17 22:48:10

Always once a week. Twice in the holidays. Aged 51 and 42. One ball. 5 kids. Together 18 years married 13. Both work fulltime. Me studying also.

YorkieDorkie Sat 27-May-17 22:54:53

Probably twice a week... we'll go a couple of weeks without sometimes but then make it up I guess grin

Heathen4Hire Sat 27-May-17 23:13:12

Rarely. I work shifts, he is a postman. We try and make up for it on high days and holidays blush

emesis Sat 27-May-17 23:15:35

1-2 times a week also. He'd like more, I'd be happy with once a month.

RebornSlippy Sat 27-May-17 23:17:47

Audrina did you mean one ball as in one testicle?

Just an unexpected little fact thrown in there!

MysweetAudrina Sat 27-May-17 23:43:24

Yeah sorry just thought it might be relevant. Not sure if it makes a difference to sex drive.

Ellisandra Sat 27-May-17 23:43:38

My fiancé and his late wife were 3x a week after 20 years.

FizzyGreenWater Sat 27-May-17 23:43:52

5 kids... you've got to hand it to that ball, it's certainly picked up the slack grin

RebornSlippy Sat 27-May-17 23:47:59

Aye, it's not the quantity, it's the quality. For balls too evidently.

Vintagegoth Sat 27-May-17 23:49:30

Once a fortnight to once a month here. Young family and tired from work not a good combination.

Happybunny19 Sat 27-May-17 23:50:42

23 years together with 3 DCs, every day mostly for the last year. Probably minimum once a week before then.

Patchouli666 Sat 27-May-17 23:57:44

Together 22 years. Married 19. Once or twice a week. Sometimes every night. But due to work occasionally can drop to a couple of times a month. But that's rare.

whirlycurly Sun 28-May-17 08:05:16

Happy bunny (not surprised! grin) what changed for you in the last year?

MysweetAudrina Sun 28-May-17 09:53:56

Well in fairness they youngest 2 were post the older 3 pre. Just wondering those of you that have sex daily or 3/4 times a week, do you orgasm each time or is it more about intimacy? I always orgasm during the sex we do have usually through his fingers or orally but if I had sex the following day it would be an effort to orgasm again so I just wouldn't bother.

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