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Blocked or deleted me?

(43 Posts)
Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages Fri 26-May-17 07:11:13

Hopefully someone is more savvy than me.
I don't know if I have been blocked or deleted from a guy's phone or WhatsApp.
On WhatsApp I see no picture. I see status and I see last seen online. However, the last seen is February even though we messaged yesterday.
I have messaged and got 1 tick which I know points to blocking. It's the 3 month old last seen that I don't understand
Any ideas?
Thanks x

MidnightHag Fri 26-May-17 07:12:30

Doesn't one tick just mean it's been sent; 2 ticks that it's been read?

Highalert Fri 26-May-17 07:14:28

One tick means the message has been delivered.

MilkTwoSugarsThanks Fri 26-May-17 07:15:46

One tick means it's been sent to the servers, two ticks means it's been delivered to the contact. It's been read when they turn blue.

Whether that points to blocking or a problem with the WhatsApp servers, I don't know.

tissuesosoft Fri 26-May-17 07:15:55

One tick is the message is sent. Two ticks is it has been delivered and two blue ticks means it has been read

Coconutcoconut Fri 26-May-17 07:46:29

As I understand it 'last seen' does not update when you are blocked so if your message has one tick and he hasn't been seen online since Feb I would assume he blocked you in Feb.

LedaP Fri 26-May-17 07:48:42

One tick means delivered. Two is when its read.

The feb date is weird. Wonder if he is having issues with the app.

Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages Fri 26-May-17 08:08:37

I saw he was online yesterday about 6pm and his last seen was updating during the day yesterday.
The last seen date now is probably the date I first saw him in WhatsApp.
It is why it's so long ago that's puzzling.
I know 1 tick is sent. It hasn't been delivered.

Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages Fri 26-May-17 08:09:47

I definitely wasn't blocked in Feb as we messaged each other yesterday

Bluntness100 Fri 26-May-17 08:13:49

He could have switched off his last seen status. It doesn't mean you are blocked. Not delivered could mean his phone isn't switched on. I think it's a bit early to tell

Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages Fri 26-May-17 08:21:43

He's usually on his phone 24/7 so it is unusual. Plus his picture is no longer visible.
I have no idea what happens on WhatsApp if you are blocked and then deleted as a contact.

EverythingEverywhere1234 Fri 26-May-17 08:23:56

Just sounds like whatsapp is being dodgy quelle surprise otherwise it would show yesterday's date and not some random one from February.

TheFaerieQueene Fri 26-May-17 08:24:49

Why not call and speak to him?

Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages Fri 26-May-17 08:34:03

I just can't.
It all points to being blocked (except I can see last seen even though it's wrong). I guess I'm just wondering if I've been deleted as a contact. It's knowing how final, final is, I suppose.

Girlywurly Fri 26-May-17 08:40:54

Whether it's blocked or deleted, both sound pretty final. Sorry, OP. flowers

EverythingEverywhere1234 Fri 26-May-17 08:42:24

You can still see their photo even if you're not A contact on their phone.

hellsbellsmelons Fri 26-May-17 08:59:19

Are you blocked on facebook?

Purplepinkstone Fri 26-May-17 09:13:53

Don't think he's blocked you. Sounds like a glitch.

Garnethair Fri 26-May-17 09:18:08

Ask someone else to put his number in their phone and look at his whatsapp picture. If they can see the picture and other details you will know whether it's a glitch.

Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages Fri 26-May-17 09:44:46

It is final final. So I suppose this is all academic.

ImperialBlether Fri 26-May-17 09:49:24

If you want to send me your number, I will happily send you a message, receive one back and then block you!

AnnaNimmity Fri 26-May-17 09:49:56

Yes if the picture's gone, it points to you being blocked
Sorry - it's not a nice way to be treated

Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages Fri 26-May-17 10:15:49

Than all.
I don't understand why, if I'm blocked, I can see anything under last seen.

ImperialBlether Fri 26-May-17 10:24:35

OK so I've sent you a message and two blue ticks there so you've read it...

AnthonyPandy Fri 26-May-17 10:25:01

How can you be blocked if you messaged each other yesterday?

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