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Blocked or deleted me?

42 replies

Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages · 26/05/2017 07:11

Hopefully someone is more savvy than me.
I don't know if I have been blocked or deleted from a guy's phone or WhatsApp.
On WhatsApp I see no picture. I see status and I see last seen online. However, the last seen is February even though we messaged yesterday.
I have messaged and got 1 tick which I know points to blocking. It's the 3 month old last seen that I don't understand
Any ideas?
Thanks x

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MidnightHag · 26/05/2017 07:12

Doesn't one tick just mean it's been sent; 2 ticks that it's been read?

Highalert · 26/05/2017 07:14

One tick means the message has been delivered.

MilkTwoSugarsThanks · 26/05/2017 07:15

One tick means it's been sent to the servers, two ticks means it's been delivered to the contact. It's been read when they turn blue.

Whether that points to blocking or a problem with the WhatsApp servers, I don't know.

tissuesosoft · 26/05/2017 07:15

One tick is the message is sent. Two ticks is it has been delivered and two blue ticks means it has been read

Coconutcoconut · 26/05/2017 07:46

As I understand it 'last seen' does not update when you are blocked so if your message has one tick and he hasn't been seen online since Feb I would assume he blocked you in Feb.

LedaP · 26/05/2017 07:48

One tick means delivered. Two is when its read.

The feb date is weird. Wonder if he is having issues with the app.

Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages · 26/05/2017 08:08

I saw he was online yesterday about 6pm and his last seen was updating during the day yesterday.
The last seen date now is probably the date I first saw him in WhatsApp.
It is why it's so long ago that's puzzling.
I know 1 tick is sent. It hasn't been delivered.

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Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages · 26/05/2017 08:09

I definitely wasn't blocked in Feb as we messaged each other yesterday

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Bluntness100 · 26/05/2017 08:13

He could have switched off his last seen status. It doesn't mean you are blocked. Not delivered could mean his phone isn't switched on. I think it's a bit early to tell

Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages · 26/05/2017 08:21

He's usually on his phone 24/7 so it is unusual. Plus his picture is no longer visible.
I have no idea what happens on WhatsApp if you are blocked and then deleted as a contact.

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EverythingEverywhere1234 · 26/05/2017 08:23

Just sounds like whatsapp is being dodgy quelle surprise otherwise it would show yesterday's date and not some random one from February.

TheFaerieQueene · 26/05/2017 08:24

Why not call and speak to him?

Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages · 26/05/2017 08:34

I just can't.
It all points to being blocked (except I can see last seen even though it's wrong). I guess I'm just wondering if I've been deleted as a contact. It's knowing how final, final is, I suppose.

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Girlywurly · 26/05/2017 08:40

Whether it's blocked or deleted, both sound pretty final. Sorry, OP. Flowers

EverythingEverywhere1234 · 26/05/2017 08:42

You can still see their photo even if you're not A contact on their phone.

hellsbellsmelons · 26/05/2017 08:59

Are you blocked on facebook?
Instagram?

Purplepinkstone · 26/05/2017 09:13

Don't think he's blocked you. Sounds like a glitch.

Garnethair · 26/05/2017 09:18

Ask someone else to put his number in their phone and look at his whatsapp picture. If they can see the picture and other details you will know whether it's a glitch.

Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages · 26/05/2017 09:44

It is final final. So I suppose this is all academic.

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ImperialBlether · 26/05/2017 09:49

If you want to send me your number, I will happily send you a message, receive one back and then block you!

AnnaNimmity · 26/05/2017 09:49

Yes if the picture's gone, it points to you being blocked
Sorry - it's not a nice way to be treated

Bestthingscomeinsmallpackages · 26/05/2017 10:15

Than all.
I don't understand why, if I'm blocked, I can see anything under last seen.

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ImperialBlether · 26/05/2017 10:24

OK so I've sent you a message and two blue ticks there so you've read it...

AnthonyPandy · 26/05/2017 10:25

How can you be blocked if you messaged each other yesterday?

ImperialBlether · 26/05/2017 10:27

So I think I've blocked you now!

Can you see the old messages?

Try sending me one now.

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