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After years of abuse from my child's father and ending the "relationship" almost 9 years ago, I've just had enough of the lies.
I've used every stragety under the sun i.e grey rock (not responding to abuser), telling people about his lies/behaviour, lying low and trying to focus on what's important. We have a child together nad he is CONSTANTLY lying and causing trouble. I've had him arrested on multiple occasions he has been convicted of assaults against me, he has been investigated by social services. He just doesn't stop. he has turned people against me with lies (which I consider a good thing as they must be idiots to believe his BS). He is obsessive.
He has mental health issues (and an incredibly low IQ ) amongst other things.
He's family are absolutely disfunctuonal and will do anything to keep his behaviour unseen. They go along with his lies and even help him spread lies. I know this for fact it's not just speculation.
He always trips himself up in the end because he is delusional. But recently it's really pissing me off again.
He won't get better and he's deeply unhappy and always will be. That makes me smile
I'd love to know who's dealt with a plank like this and how you coped?
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How do you get over the smear campaign from ex partner
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Purplepinkstone · 25/05/2017 21:46
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