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Put some sense into me

(8 Posts)
jealousoftherain Thu 25-May-17 17:57:04

Met a guy on pof, I've been separated since September 2016.
Pof man was extremely quick, or we both were. I met his kids after three weeks (teenagers), he started talking about marriage.
Then I started to notice things I didn't like, he's house was always messy, he frowned at the thought of me excercising or keeping fit, he was in the same pub every night and every weekend, and didn't want to do anything else.
Then one day we at the pub and a much younger guy tells me I can do better. Mr pof who is in he's 40's, takes off his trousers and flashes his bum at the guy! I had it then.
I've ended it, but I miss the conversations, the laughter, the company.
Oh hell!

MooPointCowsOpinion Thu 25-May-17 17:58:47

Well done, is the younger guy single? wink

RunRabbitRunRabbit Thu 25-May-17 17:59:44

Nothing wrong with missing the good times. That makes you human. Now you find someone else to have good times with, who isn't waving a million red flags. Crack on to next one.

Faez Thu 25-May-17 18:04:04

Much younger guy was right

Justmadeperfectflapjacks Thu 25-May-17 18:08:34

Ha ha rabbit - 'crack' on!!! grin
Sounds like you had a lucky escape op!!

UpYerGansey Thu 25-May-17 18:33:15

Good that you're running. Keep running. He sounds like an utter gobshite. There's far better that that out there!

Destinysdaughter Thu 25-May-17 18:38:25

Tis better to be single that poorly accompanied ( to paraphrase Jane Austen) smile

Destinysdaughter Thu 25-May-17 18:38:43

* than!

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