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Pictures - opinions on these texts please

(308 Posts)
newnamechange84 Wed 24-May-17 22:24:56

Just a small snapshot of what my 'd'p sends his 'friend'. Friend or more? Opinions please - this is a long running problem

JoyceDivision Wed 24-May-17 22:26:53

Pack his bags. You deserve better. xx

pinkyredrose Wed 24-May-17 22:27:34

I'd say your relationship is over.

Justmadeperfectflapjacks Wed 24-May-17 22:27:49

Can you not read op???!!

Plumkettle Wed 24-May-17 22:27:52

What? He says that you're not his life partner? confused
Sorry but he's not your dp

Lottie991 Wed 24-May-17 22:28:37

Get rid of him,

QuiteLikely5 Wed 24-May-17 22:28:40

Respectfully, this looks like teen text messages!

MrTumblesbitch Wed 24-May-17 22:28:51

Oh love, that must be a shock. I wouldn't be able to stay after seeing that. Does he know you have seen these messages?

feelingoldandtired Wed 24-May-17 22:29:08

I'd be packing his bags or throwing them out of the window ! 💔

newnamechange84 Wed 24-May-17 22:32:17

Thanks ladies. He's been texting this girl - 8 years younger for months now. Exaggerates the arguments we have, tells her she looks stunning constantly etc. I'm going to post more pics, I need to get this out. Be as severe as you want. He can be an amazing man, and has been, but this? I've paid for a £2000 holiday to Disneyland Paris for us and my three kids and his two next month. This will definitely out me. I love him sooo much but he's not going to be the man I marry is he?

Bobbins43 Wed 24-May-17 22:32:24

Jesus. That's awful. I'm sorry, OP.

Bobbins43 Wed 24-May-17 22:32:54

He doesn't think he is, either

newnamechange84 Wed 24-May-17 22:33:21

Not all in order

MumIsRunningAMarathon Wed 24-May-17 22:33:39

Ugh! He's just waiting for the green light and he'll be all over her!!

Telling her he's home alone.....hint hint

newnamechange84 Wed 24-May-17 22:34:54

One of those wasn't relevant!! Sorry! He says just friends and I know her bf has cheated on her and he keeps slagging off cheaters! I know they haven't physically done anything

worrier6 Wed 24-May-17 22:35:02

Wow awful hope your ok sad

GottonamechangeNow17 Wed 24-May-17 22:35:36

Oh love: sending you love and strength xx

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross Wed 24-May-17 22:35:44

Ok, I'm firmly of the belief that men and women can be friends but I have NEVER texted my male friends like that! Get rid.

newnamechange84 Wed 24-May-17 22:36:01

I'll be honest, I'm breaking my heart here. He's going to be like this forever isn't he?

newnamechange84 Wed 24-May-17 22:36:44

I found these on his ipad. The ipad he 'lost'. He's out tonight, I knew he had it and found it in the boot of his car.

MrsELM21 Wed 24-May-17 22:36:54

shock goodness OP, that's terrible, LTB for sure

worrier6 Wed 24-May-17 22:37:24

Has he done this before

pinkyredrose Wed 24-May-17 22:37:31

Yes he is.

Shodan Wed 24-May-17 22:37:33

Oh dear.

Sorry OP, it reads as though he is trying very hard to make something happen with this woman. I don't think she's up for it, although she seems to enjoy being flirted with.

He's not the one for you- leave him to his pathetic attempts to get into other women's knickers and get on with having a happy life without him.

newnamechange84 Wed 24-May-17 22:37:37

Sorry for all these messages but I'm nothing short of very distressed. I've got three kids, my DD who has ASD is SO attached to him, she loves him and it will break her little heart

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