DH of 14 years had a ons whilst working away a couple of months ago.
He confessed a week after it happened, but I believe he only did because he thought he'd caught something of her and he had to go and have a full health check.
He seemed quite remorseful for a few days after telling me and I got flowers (only bloody time he buys me flowers) but this lasted a few days, and we have been in separate rooms since, the thought of having sex with him repulsis me now.
I am trying to work through this, mainly for the sake of our 2 DS who are still so young, but I am amazed at his lack of fucking empathy and if ever I mention that night he just rolls his eyes as if to say how dare you keep mentioning it. He is putting in hardly any effort to make things right, almost as if he's in la la land.
We are just like mates at best, and has never even asked if he can come back in the bedroom.
I'm just so confused. It's only been two months, why is he not bending over backwards to put things right?
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DH had a ons, struggling to get over it
Raquel40 · 23/05/2017 20:37
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