I don't really want to go into too much detail but last night I finally told DP how I felt about the way he's been treating me (bordering emotionally abusive) and another huge incident that happened about a year ago.
He didn't know I felt like this - it's a bit of a shock and although he's 100% wrong and knows it, he's still taking it badly.
I stayed in the guestroom last night but neither of us slept. He's had to go into work this morning and he kept crying, saying how he loves me so much and is so sorry and asked for my forgiveness. (This type of incident can't be forgiven at all though)
I kept strong and told him that things will never be the same and will never work out between us now.
He left for work very upset.
I have been thinking about this for months but could never pluck up the courage to end it.
Even though he's done something absolutely unthinkable, I still love him as he's the father of my child. I feel somewhat torn, seeing him so upset.
He'll be home this evening but I don't know if he's going to stay...
I need to be strong and I know this is the right thing for me and my DC.
I don't really know why I'm writing a new thread. Just need to get it all out I think.
I hate seeing him so upset but I can't stay with him just because I don't want to make him feel bad.
I hate adulthood.
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Ended it last night..
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SureButNotSure · 21/05/2017 13:54
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