Hi, basically I will sum up what's happened.
Me and my girlfriend had a baby young, this stressed her out more than she realised and started getting depressed, somewhere along the line this became my fault.
In order for her to get her head in shape, we decided to have a break where I stay at my mums with our son for a few days and then he goes to hers and stays with her, this way we both had a break from being parents. However, this was meant to be a 2 week thing and it is currently the 7th week because it is not working. She claims this is because I can't leave her alone for more than a day, which is true, I miss her more than anything, if it was my way I would never of had this break! So because I try and meet her and talk to her she has gone of the rails and I went on her phone and she has been meeting another boy and sexting him with very graphic details and pictures...this has killed me and broken my heart. I confronted him and her and he didn't even know about me or our baby and she still blames me and claims it is not cheating as we were on a break, however, it wasn't a relationship break.
The question is, there is nothing I want more than to forgive her and give her time and then be a happy family again, however, I'm struggling to even imagine a future as our happy family as every time I see her face or her body I feel sick knowing that I'm not the only one who has touched it and kissed it. If anyone has been in a similar position please help
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