Hi, sorry I'm pretty new to this but I'm just looking for someone to talk to.
I've been with my partner for 4 years. We have had such a loving happy relationship until just recently. When we moved in together we started bickering as he expects me to do everything. We both work, he comes home and does nothing. I do all the shopping cooking cleaning even down to the morning coffee. He's never made a hot drink or poured a glass of juice. He wakes me every morning to go make him coffee and breakfast. I'm exhausted. He doesn't like me to be sat down, as he says it helps him relax when I'm doing things around the house. I just want one evening to sit and watch tele. It would be bliss. Recently he's started becoming nasty, he calls me a fat, a slag, tells me to die. He left yesterday afternoon saying he didn't want to be with me. Then he come back around 11pm. Said the usual sorry etc.
Then this morning left again because He wanted breakfast but we needed to go shopping first. However he didn't want to take me etc. He's broken 4 doors in the house. He man handles me. Pins me to the bed to try get my phone to smash it etc.
I went to go to bed, however he told me I couldn't sleep in that room and to get in the spare bed. I said that I couldn't as we haven't got any bedding for that bed. He said it's not his problem. So I'm now sleeping on the sofa. He's so angry and it's really effecting my mental health. I suffer with anxiety and depression. I just needed to offload. Sorry if it's a long post. I love him so much and I just don't know what to do.
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I'm so lost
1233332q · 20/05/2017 22:47
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