I've been with DP for three years and we get married in November.
There was a big spark when we first met and we had a regular sex life. I love him, I'd never want to hurt him and he's one of the kindest, most loyal and caring men I've met.
We get on well, we never argue and have similar values generally speaking. All good so far.
However the past few weeks I've been feeling unsettled. It's hard to pin point what I'm feeling...partly that I'm not 100% sure I still find him sexually attractive (but I've had the same feeling with every long term relationship after a couple of years so that could be me and/or the antidepressants I'm on).
Partly I'm wondering whether I'm cut out to be with someone for a lifetime. I very much wanted to get married though and was so very happy when he proposed. So perhaps this is just wedding jitters?
I also keep thinking maybe I should be with someone else...but then I think this is just pre-wedding jitters as I know that I'm happy with DP in so many ways.
I keep going round and round in my head, with no clear answer.
Did anyone get pre-wedding jitters? Is that what this is? Or do I have cold feet?
I don't want to walk away from a very good man and then realise I'm just being a bit of a dick and that I've made a terrible choice based on terrible logic (grass is greener, etc)...
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Are these wedding jitters or proper cold feet?
imightneedsocks · 20/05/2017 16:47
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