DH has left and says he is going for good. He has done this before and this time I am trying to do what I said I would which is to just let him go. It is very recent and he has left because he finds it unbearable living with me.
He says we will sort out what we do in the next few weeks, hasn't taken anything but some clothes (I assume) and phone chargers. His whole life is in this house including our child. He has not been in contact with our child at all in the last 36 hours and I don't know where he is staying but his isn't an affair situation.
I am trying to keep things normal for DC but questions are startignabout where dad is.
I am not sure what to do. I don't want to tell DC anything without having spoken to DH first but I am holding off contacting him as what I really want to say is please come back and try for the sake of DC but I really think it has gone past that.
I am trying to be strong, going to work, collecting DC from school, avoiding social media and have only told my sister.
I know from having been through hard emotional times before hat things will gradually get better and there will be a new normal but I am just so sad and so scared for my DC. We have always managed to pretty much keep our personal issues out of our DC's life, have been to counselling and so on but seem to be just completely incompatible and unable to make things right.
I think I just want some words of strength from people that it will be OK and me, DC and DH will find our own new normal without too much heartache.
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