My DH is u/e and looking for work. He's looking at places away from where we live. Not commutable. If he gets a job it will be well paid, where he's looking I'd be unlikely to get a job as well paid as the one I have.
I know he needs to find a job and the job market is really limited where we live.
On the other hand I earn £50K a year, have a really good pension, and like where we live. I'm settled here, have friends and his family is an amazing support.
I feel like I'd just be trailing along and leaving my career and prospects because he needs work.
Aaargh - I feel like I'm trying to be positive but inside I'm thinking 'but what about me!'.
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Eatingcheeseontoast · 16/05/2017 11:38
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