Not sure there's a point to this post but I need to just get it off my chest before I erupt.
I've thought so long about going non contact with my family but haven't purely because I love my dad and he adores his grandkids.
But today the shit has actually hit the fan. I've met someone he ticks all my boxes. I mentioned in passing to my mum I was dating and she seemed interested. She asked to see a picture of him, so I showed her a pic. Vital info he is black, I am white.
She has hit the roof told me him or the family, asked me if I had no shame etc etc.
I am actually appalled. My kids are not aware of him as it's not for them to know yet. My 'mother' has tonight made a remark in front of dd about skin colour etc and races. I was livid ( to dds credit she told her ' all humans bleed the same' and walked away so thank god my child has some sense! ) she's told my grandma who is on the same wavelength as her.
So tonight I've learnt my family are racists and I finally have the motivation to go non contact.
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Finally have a reason for going nc
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namechange567 · 15/05/2017 19:13
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