Please help.
Recentl separated, with a 1 year old. Ex now living miles away from his child and phoning up at no notice demanding contact.
He doesn't follow my childcare or feeding requests and when alone with her, in my house, I'd often come back to hear baby screaming in distress and very unsettled. His mil tried to look after baby once and neglected to change her nappies and baby had horrific burns and welts on her back and front. It was appalling.
Last time I and baby were in his car, he collided into the kerb and had to replace his tyre and then he was driving on the motorway rattling along over 100 mph. This is not the only piece of highly dangerous driving I've seen with baby on board.
I said that is unacceptable and reckless endangerment, he is defending it.
He also calls at no notice and ignoring baby's routine and expects me to drop everything and hand baby over.
He is also violent and aggressive and flares into rage just to ask him to simply consider baby's needs and rights. He smashed his way violently into the property when I changed the locks. I'm finally riding of him.
He has no baby stuff at his house and is skint and paid no maintenance for last ten weeks, knowing that I could lose my home.
Questions : what sort of contact schedule would you offer him to start? I'm going to see a solicitor.
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My ex DP is being a cunt about child contact.
Tiredofstruggling1 · 15/05/2017 17:43
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