Been with dh for 10years. Without going into details, I'm fairly sure he's messed about. He's a full on flirt, does it in front of me. He lies about so much that I seriously don't know if I'm losing my marbles. Anyway, just recently he's stopped any paper statements from his bank account coming to our house, tells me he just unchecked the box. He's amazingly lost his password to fb so has opened another account that I can't get into ( we share a tablet so always keep our apps open. I've got nothing to hide from him) his phone goes everywhere with him. There's lots of little things mounting up but nothing that's concrete that I can find.
I know this sounds awful, I know I probably sound like a nagging insecure wife. I am totally insecure after finding out a couple of things, porn on his phone after swearing blind he didn't watch it, he made a pass at a friend, he was talking secretly to another woman on fb. It's all driving me insane and being a snooping wife isn't who I am. I want to end it or at least put an end to the torment going on in my brain but it would make me feel better to have a good reason.
Am I over reacting? The bank account thing really makes me think he's hiding something.
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hinkleblarton · 15/05/2017 14:16
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