I grew up in an abusive house hold and then as an adult I have had two failed marriages both which turned abusive. My second husband is now in prison for what he did to me.
I've realised that I have never had a healthy relationship in my life and because of my upbringing I don't even have that love that your parents are supposed to show you to fall back on.
I think my experiences of 'love' mean I have a very warped view of how someone treats you when they love you and in turn this has affected my own expectations of what I should feel when in love.
So how do I learn to recognise real love? And what should my expectations be of a romantic relationship? I know this is a huge question and there probably isn't one simple answer but I'm just trying to improve my understanding so I can form healthier relationships in my life.
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What is love? I'm in my 40's and still don't know
Dulcibella · 15/05/2017 09:26
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