Really struggling here and not quite sure what my next move should be.
Been with dh for 13 years, have 2 dc (10 & 2 ((infertility)) ).
Dh works mon-fri (thinks he is the only one in the world that has to do this!) i worked in between my 2 dc in a managerial role that i gave up after dc2 was born.
I literally do everything that a stay at home mother should do (not complaining, enjoy doing it but sometimes would enjoy an hour or 2 to myself!) And dh literally does sod all. He always says he doesnt want to be "sitting about all day at home" which means simple house/garden jobs are never done and i have to keep asking if he would mind eg. mowing lawn and theres always an excuse not to do it. That eg. sounds petit i know but its at the top of a neverending list!
When it comes to the children he was great with dc1 but seems to struggle with dc2 and doesnt help me at all!! To the point i was unable to celebrate a recent special birthday as he is unable to put the child to bed!!!
Feels to me he would rather be out in the pub with work colleagues or friends then spend time with us. And now its come to a point where I feel like im becoming the nagging wife! And keep questioning myself "what the hell am i actually doing with him!"
Surely there is more to life than this!!!!
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emille · 13/05/2017 08:49
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