Hi, my name is mike
I know I'm a man and I'm assuming this is a blog/message forum for mums.. but I really need some advice and not sure where else to turn.
My girlfriend is 7 weeks pregnant. And we seem to now be going through a very rough patch.
Let me explain out background a little first. I live in Wales and she lives in Bristol.. we have been dating from January and we got engaged around 3 weeks ago before we knew about the pregnancy.. it had been very quick.. but we are madly in love and have spent the majority of our time together.
She has a 9 year old son from a previous relationship, who very much enjoys my company and we do things together.. cinema, sports etc which no previous partner has ever done with him. I had been traveling back and forth for work etc and spending the evening with her and her son.
Since she found out she was pregnant everything had changed... she no longer wants me to sleep at her place.. even though I took a job in Bristol because she said I could move in with her.. until later in the year when we get a larger place. She says that I will stress her out during the pregnancy.. we can move in at 9 months just before she gives birth.
There has been one argument where she said I asked her if she was ok 5-6 times one day.. only because she was acting very weird and would not talk to me about anything. I was only trying to help. She is basing her whole pregnancy experience on this one day. I'm so desperate to be there with her during this pregnancy as it will be my only experience of this. She acts as it's nothing I'm missing out on as she has been through it once.
Am I being unreasonable? I just want to be with the woman I love and the futur mother of our child.
Any advice will be greatly appreciated
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Help with a Pregnant Girlfriend
Walesdad2017 · 12/05/2017 22:31
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