Been with DH for 10 years, married for 7.. two dd...
Long story short..I gave up work after having dd1 and since than stay at home mum... I have a few mummy friends whom I usually meet up during the day.. most eve i keep free to spend time with hubby and girls... but my DH will go out at every chance he gets...drinks with friends, nights out with work colleagues, etc... i appreciate he needs his personal time... and he is always saying he needs his time to himself.. but recently he has started going out and doing stuff nearly 2-3 times a week...
If I ask him for a date night he will be like plan it and let me know... if I say let's go out for dinner... most of the time it's " oh why spend money out?"I finally told him to set a date and he did.. for June!!
And Last week I had a stern word with him and told him he needs to take us out for dinner as family( last time we went was on Mother's Day)... so he agreed and did( eventhoigh he tried to cancel and go for dinner ( with us) to his friends house.. I said no!
I don't go out much as I have to do everything with the kids( bed dinner etc) I don't mind him going out but maybe a few times a month instead of week..
But I feel like he doesn't like my company or tge girls... I have had arguments about this many times... I'm so fed up...
I just feel like I'm chasing a man who doesn't like me or my company..
When he's at home he's on his mobile or watching tv
I just don't know how to behave.. I'm tired of asking him to spend time with us and me...
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Feels like DH doesn't like my company
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Faz2015 · 11/05/2017 16:47
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