Bit more of a relationship thing than straight up AIBU...
OH and I went through a bad patch a year ago, caused mainly due to him working away, enjoying the attention of a younger female, porn and lies. It also brought up something from a very long time ago. Cue lots of arguments and poor self esteem etc on my part. Have been trying to work through it and part of the 'rekindling of interest' involved a variety of stuff from lovehoney . I got quite into it, he initially seemed very interested, but not so much for months now. In fact, he's not interested in anything more than a boring shag a couple of times a week, and dashed any new found confidence I had a few weeks ago when he told me he hadn't been interested on a number of occasions, just about managed to 'do it' because he thought I wanted to. Quite frankly, I am bored, and haven't felt or mentioned anything sexy in months because it makes me feel like a sex pest, who is ignored anyway.
Completely lost any interest now, so boxed up all the stuff (which hasn't been used in so long I can't remember) and threw it out. He probably won't even notice until the next time we move house, because he has shown zero interest despite me trying. AIBU to give up until he shows more interest and puts some effort in? Don't really know where to go from here...
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aibu to throw away all the adult toys
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mylaststraw · 10/05/2017 15:01
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