Hello, I'm new to this forum and found it by googling some of the behaviour my boyfriend uses at home.
One day he will be lovely, tells me I'm pretty and that he loves me, the next he will hardly speak to me and I'm constantly feeling like I've done something wrong.
He will go quiet but when people are around he will speak to them and laugh with them and ignore me like I'm being punished.
He is very up and down and can be quite rude to people at times. When he's loving he's great, but when he's bad he's awful! I feel quite on edge a lot of the time but I can't pin point why cos he isn't yelling at me or anything, it's just I feel awkward.
He just makes me feel nervous but he's never hit me or anything. He doesn't call me names either. I'm not sure why I feel like I do cos I don't have any behaviour to tell you about but I feel so on edge!
Anyone else feel like this?
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Emilica · 09/05/2017 00:55
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