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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

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Liar liar bums on fire.

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Hesabawbag · 07/05/2017 00:13

Thought I'd start a thread to pull tips on dealing with your gut instincts versus the crap that's spouted on discovering infidelity. So basically cues we get when we just know its bs.
Starting of with the same minimal repeated 5 word sentence that's. Never deviated from.

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pinkyredrose · 07/05/2017 00:15

She meant nothing to me

CaulkheadNorth · 07/05/2017 00:16

Eh?

honeylulu · 07/05/2017 00:32

It's not you, it's me.
???

KreamyKoala · 07/05/2017 00:36

'She's going through a hard time and needed someone to talk to'

lifesjoys · 07/05/2017 00:37

We are just friends

MadameGlitterSparkles · 07/05/2017 00:40

'I can explain'

Trickycat · 07/05/2017 00:42

She's just a friend.

CharlieBoo · 07/05/2017 00:44

She's just a friend/colleague

CrazedZombie · 07/05/2017 00:47

I didn't mean to hurt you.
It's not personal.

CrazedZombie · 07/05/2017 00:47

She's just a friend.
I love you but not in love with you.

NarcsBegone · 07/05/2017 00:58

I didn't tell you because I didn't want to hurt/upset/knew you wouldn't like it blah blah

pnutter · 07/05/2017 01:15

She needed cheering up

SuiteHarmony · 07/05/2017 01:16

There. Is. Nothing. Going. On. And you always over-react; that's why I didn't tell you about the drinks/dinner/texts/phone calls.

SafeWord · 07/05/2017 01:17

Don't start

pnutter · 07/05/2017 01:19

You are crazy/ paranoid

lifesjoys · 07/05/2017 01:20

I deleted the messages because I knew you'd think more was going on, which it obviously wasn't

lifesjoys · 07/05/2017 01:20

We only talked about me and you, I was asking her advice whilst she was sucking my

Livedandlearned · 07/05/2017 01:22

She's weird

pnutter · 07/05/2017 01:22

I was lonely because you're always putting the kids first

Hesabawbag · 07/05/2017 01:24

You deserve better than me, just to mind fuck you when their still lying through their teeth.

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Hesabawbag · 07/05/2017 01:26

It was just stupid stuff that meant nothing, it's you I want.

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tallwivglasses · 07/05/2017 01:38

This is where the MN mantra comes in handy - shove his stuff in bin bags and stick 'em in the doorstep

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Hesabawbag · 07/05/2017 01:40

Out of character derogatory comments directed at you can be a sign they are trying to validate their own vile behaviour by making you out to be the ogre.

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Hesabawbag · 07/05/2017 01:42

I don't want this., ironically mind fucking.

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Hesabawbag · 07/05/2017 01:50

Over thinking their responses rather than talking openly and jumping on anything to go off topic and cause am argument about anything else that will deflect from them being taken to account.

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