Set up by a friend of a friend....
A week of texting. Arranged a date. Coffee at 3pm. Long first date as he talked ALOT. Told me alot about his marriage. Other very very personal stuff. End of date I gave him a kiss on the cheek. He then mentioned 2nd date. He would cook. No let's eat out. Actuallywe could have an accidental date. (Red flag?)
Follow up text....he thanks me for a lovely first date and says let me know about a 2nd date. So I text and mention a meal. He agrees. I say I'm free such and such a date. He then didn't get back to me until 2am (red flag?)
Next day. He says as long as it's not this day this day this day I'm free. He has his grown up sons for tea 3 days a week. I had already mentioned my time is limited as my young dd's don't go to their dad's. Already he's telling me he can't be flexible (red flag?)
I mention I'm free Sunday. He says. My one son is out clubbing so I will wait for him to wake up and cook for him. So basically he isn't free. His texts are complimentary but he is always needing validation from me. This is after ONE date. Soon as I do (not overly) he disappears. He wondered why I didn't want to kiss him. Why didn't I chat much. Was I disappointed.
He then disappeared again and text back at 1am. I'm asleep.
He mentioned a meal. I agreed. He disappeared so no clue what time.
A couple of days later I hint I'm free for ma be a coffee. He texts back at 10pm saying sorry I thought I'd replied. He has been on facebook throughout the day. So I just put a thumbs up.
In the mean time he has put a facebook post. Stating something about being single. Yes he is but is this inconsiderate?
If a guy wants to date you he makes it happen right.
Do I text and say are we still on for Fri? Or leave it as if he was interested I would feel he was.
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Can you help me decide. Not sure what red flags are.....
staryeyes00 · 25/04/2017 13:33
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