I was going to post in 'Sex' but thought I'd get a bit more support over here in 'Relationships'.
Since the birth of my DS 2 years ago, I've suffered with depression and anxiety. I've been on anti depressants for about 8 months and they're really really helping me. Only problem is my sex drive is pretty much non-existent.
I'm just not in the mood. I feel like I could happily go the next couple of years without it.
But my DH on the other hand... we used to dtd about 4 times a week, and now it's maybe once every month.
Anyway last night he asked me for sex (like he does 3 times a day) and I said sorry I'm not in the mood, how about tomorrow night? (I'm just going to have to grin and bear it)
And he started saying that 4 weeks is such and long time and that he can't keep going like this.
I said that we have other marital issues that are more important for us to sort out first, mainly his lack of respect for me or our home, and that that's probably a contributing factor as to why I'm not in the mood.
But he said the lack of sex is the only issue that matters.
I'm at a bit of a crossroads. Sorry for the long posy I just don't know what to do.
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4 weeks no sex a dealbraker?
UmizoomiBananaRamama · 25/04/2017 09:39
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